everything comes to an end

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think about it. think about it over and over and over again. everything do come to an end. I remember an old quote, saying, "no matter how good or bad our situation is, it will soon going to change". how it's connected to this post's title is, a happy vibe, or a sad situation will end, and eventually change. even our life soon or later is going to end. what we have now is not permanent. it's temporarily. so why bother?

why bother buying more and more clothes? why bother doing things that we don't even care of? why bother thinking what others think about you, where actually that doesn't matter at all? why bother wasting your time with people who don't respect and will not understand you no matter what? why bother collecting labels from others to you? why?

my principal is simple. do what you like, and what you think is good for you (yes, and others of course). you don't need to be well-known, famous and be the hottest chick on earth. you just have to live your life fully. because life is short, man, life is short. personally, I wouldn't want to regret things when I got older. things that starts with: I should've, could've, and might have been. that's why, instead of worrying and regretting your future, you better start now and make one that you would like to be your future. get my point? because what you do yesterday and today might change your future too. think.

oh yeah, and think before you act. I'm not lecturing anyone here. I am lecturing myself, here. trying to be a better person. trying to have principals of my own. trying to be bold and to believe in my self. trying to be proud and confident. that's hard. damn hard. but at least that's what I suggest you to do too. there's nothing wrong in being yourself and you might realize when you hit that comfy point. that point where every other things don't matter anymore. it's just you and your life.

because in the end friendship will come to an end, happiness and every other feeling will also come to an end, thoughts will come to an end, and there you are with you and yourself. that's why, whatever you wanted to be, be a good one. cause in the end, you're all you've got.

*by the way, this is not supposed to be a negative-aura post. this supposed to be encouraging. well at least that's what I was trying to do :P

have a great week!

.van!